Your Story

🏵𝐀𝐫𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐯𝐢𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐦 𝐨𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐯𝐢𝐜𝐭𝐨𝐫 𝐨𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐲?🏵⁣⁣

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“I react this way because of my childhood… I could never do that, I don’t come from money.”⁣⁣

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𝘞𝘦 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘰𝘳𝘪𝘨𝘪𝘯 𝘴𝘵𝘰𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘴, 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘪𝘴 𝘱𝘢𝘳𝘵 𝘰𝘧 𝘣𝘦𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘩𝘶𝘮𝘢𝘯. ⁣⁣

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We all go through shit! Yes, some of us are dealt a ‘harder’ (relative) hand in life, battling both personal and societal limitations. Yes, they affect us in very real ways. ⁣⁣

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⚡️Yet when we use those stories to make excuses for our behavior, we let our trauma define us. ⁣⁣

⚡️We get comfortable with pain and feel like we deserve it. ⁣⁣

⚡️We give our power away and say, I am nothing more than this darkness. ⁣⁣

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𝐎𝐮𝐫 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐬 𝐠𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐮𝐬 𝐜𝐥𝐮𝐞𝐬 𝐨𝐧 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐰𝐞 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐦𝐞𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐥. ⁣⁣

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We can either use these clues as fuel to move forward or as a fortress to keep us FUCKING STUCK. ⁣⁣

⚠️Stuck in pain. ⁣⁣

⚠️Stuck in PTSD. ⁣⁣

⚠️Stuck in self loathing. ⁣⁣

⚠️Stuck in cycles of financial crisis. ⁣⁣

⚠️Stuck in dysfunctional relationships. ⁣⁣

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All of us (𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮!) have the power to say “enough is enough” and decide to create the life you’ve always dreamed of. ⁣⁣

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This isn’t an overnight fix, 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘪𝘴 𝘢 𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦𝘭𝘰𝘯𝘨 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘮𝘪𝘵𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵 𝘵𝘰 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨. ⁣⁣

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𝐓𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐬𝐦𝐮𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐮𝐦𝐚 𝐢𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐟𝐮𝐜𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐛𝐢𝐫𝐭𝐡𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 — 𝐢𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮’𝐫𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐥𝐮𝐧𝐠𝐞. ⁣⁣

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🏵So I ask again: Are you the victim or the victor of your story?🏵⁣⁣

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Let me know in the comments below 👇🏾